One Whole Week with Back Pain

It's raya. I have the whole week break. My parents are not at home and we can't go balik kampung since it will not fit the 7 of us in a car quite a long journey. Of course, I have planned a long list of things that I want to complete for the week. But what we planned is not always the plan. I kicked off raya with minor flu and end up with upper back pain. As a part time therapist, I have done all within my might to heal but this is my 6th day with back pain and there goes my break. I haven't tackled my paper clutter which I planned to do during the break and I have not sewn my herbal compress that I planned to make during raya.

I believe it is the raya stress that caused all of this pain. The inner raya pain somehow must have caused the physical pain. I guess it was a bit too heavy to carry. I never liked raya especially after I got married. I never knew raya is a bit thing. I got hurt the very first raya when my parents didn't even call me when I first celebrated my raya at my in laws. Well, you must wonder why I didn't call first as a daughter. But the truth is, I wondered whether or not my parents thought about me during the very first raya I was absent. It's really tiring just waiting for the CEO to decide where we are heading every raya. Of course if you love your husband for Him, this wouldn't be a big issue.

I know I'm not alone during raya. There are many wives who face the same thing. It is a big issue. If I publish this, I bet there will be comments saying not to humiliate my husband by sharing this. I bet many wives are screaming in their soul when it comes to raya.

So, how do I celebrate raya next year? Hopefully, not with a week back pain.

One Whole Week with Back Pain

Berserhana, Elak Orang Jadi Meluat

Haaa.. Kan Rasulullah kata kita kena bersederhana. Masih dalam mode raya, makin lama, makin pelik posting orang sekarang. Ada yang posing sakan, makin ramai 'like' makin menjadi-jadi posingnya. Inilah trend sekarang:


1) kalau suami ala-ala ada affair 
Postingnya menunjukkan dia bahagia dengan suami. Muka suami punyalah ketat, muka dia muka bangga bahagia.The rest no comment la ya

2) Posing sana sini gaya model
Makin bertambah 'like' makin bertambahlah posingnya. Mula-mula posing biasa, lama-lama jadi luar biasa.

3) Hias rumah biasa-biasa
Tagline = deko rumah biasa-biasa aje.. sekali pos gambar. wallawehhhh! macam istana.

4) Masak simple-simple je
Ni pun lebih kurang macam deko rumah, sekali punya hidang 4-5 jenis penuh satu meja

5) Status Meroyan, bila tanya takmau jawab
Hmmm.. tak tahulah apa motif so no komen

6) Banyak lagi sebenornya.. kang sontap..

Berserhana, Elak Orang Jadi Meluat